To dream that you are in Despair speaks to the numerous hardships and savageries that you will involvement in the waking scene. On the other hand, the fantasy might be a play on words on "the extra". Maybe the fantasy is indicating at some go down. "

To dream that you are in despair represents the many hardships and cruelties that you will experience in the waking world. Alternatively, the dream may be a pun on "the spare". Perhaps the dream is hinting at some back up.

To dream that others are in depression means that somebody around you will need your assistance.

To dream that others are in despair denotes that someone around you will be in need of your help.

To be in despair in dreams, denotes that you will have many and cruel vexations in the working world. To see others in despair, foretells the distress and unhappy position of some relative or friend.