Dreaming of a feeling of abhor for a person indicates your rising dislike for that person. You are disappointed by the way the person has acted still you are resisting to admit the dislike that is growing.

To dream that you abhor a person represents your waking dislike for that person. You are harboring feelings of resentment or aggression and feel that this person has acted in a less than honorable way.

To dream that you are loathed by others recommends that you might compel your perspectives and assessments on others. You are annoying others.

To dream that you are abhorred by others suggests that you may be forcing your views and opinions on others. You are rubbing others the wrong way.